Leadership: 9 Universal Laws

May 2nd, 2009

1. The Law of Authoritarian Style

Authoritarian leaders lead by control and fear. It’s a “my way or the highway” approach. They believe their right to leadership comes with their title. This style works in the short term because those weaker than the leader will obey. The problem is this style guarantees rebellion, and therefore falls apart in the long term.

2. The Law of Authoritative Style

Authoritative leaders lead by example, respect and trust. Their position of leadership is earned. An authoritative leader is not interested in control. An authoritative leader is clearly and simply in charge.

3. The Law of Example

Leaders know they are watched, imitated and modeled. Everything they do is an example to those they are leading, and so they think and behave accordingly.

4. The Law of Vision

“Without a vision, the people perish.”

Leaders think long term. Because they know where they are going, everything they do has a clear purpose. Their vision guides their leadership.

5. The Law of Dictators

Dictators are impostors trying to look like leaders. Dictators foster blind, fearful and dependent followers. Dictators lord their power over their followers.

6. The Law of Leaders

Genuine leaders create not disciples, but other effective leaders. This is because leaders teach, even mentor, those whom they are called to lead.

7. The Law of Listening

Leaders listen.

They have to.

Without the ability to listen, leaders are only capable of responding to what is going on inside their own heads and hearts. That’s a dangerous thing, even for the best and wisest of leaders. When listening, leaders can respond to what is going on inside the heads and hearts of those being led. An effective leader needs both sources of information.

8. The Law of Understanding

Author Stephen Covey has said it best:

“Seek first to understand, then to be understood.”

Most leaders - most people for that matter - seek first to be understood.

“If only I could get them to understand, then they would follow me.”

From that misguided notion comes tremendous effort to “make” people understand. There is an agenda, and it will be pushed. Like many other paradoxes of life, just the opposite is true. Once you seek to understand first, your chance to be understood skyrockets. So does your chance to lead.

9. The Law of You

You do not have to be the CEO of a large company to qualify for the title of leader. You can be a parent, a teacher, a sibling. Every child, every class, every group, every family needs a leader.

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Three Secrets To Improving Your Decision Making

May 2nd, 2009

There are three ways to improve your life and to succeed through better decision making:

(1) Make decisions fast.

(2) Change decisions slowly.

(3) Let your decisions guide you to victory.

I have made most of my major decisions in life super-quickly, and by and large, I’m very pleased with them.

For example, I saw a house that I thought was just perfect for me. It had Spanish features, occupied a corner lot in the foothills, and was a little bit off the beaten path.

After seeing it the first time I decided when it comes onto the market, I’m buying it; no matter how much it costs!

Sure enough, one afternoon when I was driving, I noticed a for sale sign in front. I knew the realtor, and she worked closely with me, and one way or another I got it.

Yes, I walked through the place, but so quickly, most people would be amazed. I just knew it was for me, and it made me very happy through the years.

When the time came, I applied to only one law school; it was my first and only choice. As far as I was concerned, I was going there, and I did.

The minute I walked into the martial arts dojo, I knew my goal was to reach Black Belt.

It took eight years to earn, and many sacrifices, and I became only the 20th person to reach 1st Degree Black Belt in 32 years that the dojo has been training people.

Once you have decided, you have committed, and when this occurs, you’re already on your way to victory.

So, make decisions quickly, change them slowly, and let them guide you to victory!

Dr. Gary S. Goodman, President of www.Customersatisfaction.com, is a popular keynote speaker, management consultant, and seminar leader and the best-selling author of 12 books, including Reach Out & Sell Someone®, You Can Sell Anything By Telephone! and Monitoring, Measuring & Managing Customer Service, and the audio program, “The Law of Large Numbers: How To Make Success Inevitable,” published by Nightingale-Conant. He is a frequent guest on radio and television, worldwide. A Ph.D. from USC’s Annenberg School, a Loyola lawyer, and an MBA from the Peter F. Drucker School at Claremont Graduate University, Gary offers programs through UCLA Extension and numerous universities, trade associations, and other organizations in the United States and abroad. He holds the rank of Shodan, 1st Degree Black Belt in Kenpo Karate. He is headquartered in Glendale, California, and he can be reached at (818) 243-7338 or at: gary@customersatisfaction.com

The Trendy World Wide Real Estate Market Space — Catered to by The Property Index Online Company

May 1st, 2009

Notwithstanding the fact that the Property Index online service is actually a new kid on the block corporation, (they were registered only in March 2007), they were very swift to establish expert reputation. They are actually a quite down-to-earth corporation specialising in offering instruction to every customer who is dedicated to sell, buy, rent or let property in a globalized world. Their affirmation: to assist you unearth precisely what’s needed swiftly and, even better, sans pain.

Land is easily available across the globe presently, certainly the elite area being estate for sale in Portugal. It’s simply to write up the wonderful properties for sale in Portugal, one motivation for wanting property here being properties available and the mega cool opportunity of living amid such a spirited population.

It’s one of the most favored countries presently, and in view of the overall attractiveness and the climate surrounding you here, how could you say no… Land in Portugal is very rich in history and culture, this area of the world is and has always been home to various nations.

Around 25 years ago there’d be only very few of Englishmen who are looking for properties in Portugal. Ask any individual who has relocated to Portugal and they will tell you the same thing. Many people would will see it as a rage and others will see it as a near to an addiction. The people that will actually repair here will range from yuppie couples keen on a challenge to retirees meaning to relax and enjoy themselves.

Do bear in mind, though, that there might be hindrances when buying properties abroad — there’ll be dozens of procedures to master when devising a plan, visiting or actually purchasing. Even if a single minute procedure is missed it is liable to easily bring about sizable hindrances plus, of course, even more important, a failed investment.

Obviously, as is to be expected with this fashionable place, properties could be pricey in this region and this, of course, is solely because of the wide spread market demand. In spite of this the client is actually spoiled in such a region so determined by sunshiny land and superb setting. It’s actually got the whole ball of wax any of us might really covet, and then some.

The Property Index site has a vast range of property for sale in Portugal, view the range online.